How to spy on a partner or spouse to gather evidence for:

• Cheating

• Chatting

• Porn addiction

• Child molester

• Shady business activity

• Financial dominance

• Embezzlement

• Money laundering

• Fraud

• Drug dealer

• Domestic violence

This is a slow burn, you have to be careful, patient and cunning.

You have to be brave, and keep your anger at bay. This will be the biggest performance of your life. You are a detective now. Keep a clear head, make a plan and keep your emotions in check.

1. Ask your guy to buy you an iphone at T-Mobile and put you on his sharing plan. And, share passwords for family sharing.

2. After your phone goes through the set up process, you should have iTunes account family sharing.

3. Your partners password for all of their saved accounts should show up mirrored on your phone along with your personal saved passwords. The connected Email accounts and passwords should now be available to you.

4. If your guy says that he trust you then he could even give you your own login code for his phone or face recognition code. Just because he gives you access does not mean that he doesn’t have anything to hide. This means you have to dig deeper.

5. Remember that some peoples accounts have high security measures and be careful if you login to your persons different website accounts because they could get notified.

6. This is breath holding and mind over matter research mode. Must brace yourself emotionally for what you might find and step away and breathe and do not react..

7. Be sure to log out of all sites when you are done looking at their activity. Always clear browsing history for that time frame of snooping.

8. Also clean the search, history, browsing history every time- do not skip this step.

9. And it doesn’t hurt to do a restart on the computer to refresh it.

10. Get in your car go for a drive and take some deep breaths and cry and scream if you want to, and then you need to devise a plan for collecting enough evidence to take to the police to start a case against them which it wouldn’t be you against them it would be the state against them in some cases for some crimes.

11. Examples of evidence are:

12. Bank statements

13. Credit card statements

14. Texting messages that can be downloaded as a history or take screenshots

15. Photos - anything physical or electronic

16. Screenshots of their browsing history

17. Paper receipts

18. Real estate purchase documents

19. Bill of sale documents

20. Life insurance on you (without permission)

21. Physical evidence, such as personal items or something as big as a car or airplane

22. Unexplained private gifts

23. Missing cash withdrawals from bank ATMs

24. Physical evidence that belongs to you or another woman that they have in their possession

25. You can buy a burner phone with no contract. You can use it to create a false social media account to either follow or track what your ex is doing or even entrap them speaking to minors, or whatever shady thing they’re doing.