This is not your fault, the person that hurt you is mentally ill. They need to be put in prison.
Sometimes we trust the wrong people that we let into our lives…
No one is to blame, except the abuser.
If You or someone in your family has been assaulted, you have a lot of support from your local county government. Be discrete, and find a place outside of your home to Tell Your Mom what happened. You will not be in trouble.
Your Local Government:
With the support of your local police, District Attorney, and Federal Government, you can get the justice your family deserves. Your local county will have counseling and victims’s assistance resources to help you get through this process.
Your Church community:
Y0ur church can provide food and pay your utility bills. You may want to seek out support from your church, or other free counseling services for this very difficult time. This website is designed to give you Courage, Resources, and Short-term Trauma Counseling Support.
“ “God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes; and there shall be no more death, neither sorrow, nor crying, neither shall there be any more pain””
“ “He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds””
You need to be brave, and tell your story…
Be brave and TELL YOUR MOM. This is not your fault.
The person who hurt you deserves to go to prison. Take the first step and tell your Mom. She will take you to meet with the police to create a case to defend and protect you.
Read the steps on the “Parent tab” to understand the process. Do not confront your abuser. Move out of the family home if they live with you. This needs to be carefully planned by your Mom to be strategic, and act as if nothing is wrong. You are gathering evidence and setting a trap. You will need to be patient and calm during this period.
If this happened within 24 hours, do not bathe. Go to the ER for an exam and to let the doctors take samples of your abuse. If you feel comfortable, take photos for the police.
You do not have to give your Mom all the details, save that for your meeting with the police. Your Mom may be asked to leave the room to avoid embarrassment and for your privacy. You are strong, you can do this!
Make the Calls
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Tell a Doctor
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Tell The Police
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Child Protective Services